'Called To Serve' in the News (and a Reflection)

submitted May 21, 2010 by Matthew Ellis EMAIL TO A FRIEND 6 COMMENTS Share/Bookmark

Here at NEHM, we've been working hard to recover from the Called To Serve conference. If you'd like to see what others had to say, you can visit NEHM's Media page for links to all the coverage. Included are the following:


Returning Home

So often we go to a conference and become inspired, flush with excitement about the possibilities and projects we'll undertake upon our return. I know that always happens for me but then... somehow, by the time I return home I have a few hundred unanswered emails and personal responsibilities that have been neglected while I was away. How can we possibly have time to reconnect with our lives while also incorporating these grand new plans?

I think it's this common experience that has caused me to return again and again to Wayne Muller's closing presentation on Friday. After several days of discussing the extensive workload suggested by even the description of domestic poverty, Wayne provided a refreshing reminder that we cannot forget to consider what is 'enough'. If  we only focus on what is undone, the work that piles up while we sleep, those who need us as we dare to enjoy a weekend, we'll burn ourselves out and ensure that our talents go unused due to exhaustion. 

In addition, all of our good work will feel in vain. If we only notice all the work that's left to do, we'll eventually feel discouraged, unworthy of the ministry that needs us so badly. Wayne suggests we do the reverse: Notice every little thing we do that helps to make the world better and take satisfaction from it. Decide on the smallest thing you can do that will make you feel like today you've done enough and do it. We can't solve domestic poverty today or tomorrow (maybe ever), but we can help feed a hungry child or provide clothing to someone who is in need. 

Notice that one person. Resolve to make their life a little better even if it's only for the moment you interact with him. Be satisfied that today you've done enough. 

That's what has stayed with me after the conference. What about you? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the Comments section below. 

Matthew Ellis serves as executive director of National Episcopal Health Ministries.

6 Comments

Ginny Wagenseller
June 22nd, 2010 6:38am
Our parish is considering the JustFaith program that Jack Jezreel discussed at the Called to Serve conference.
Does anyone who has done the program in their own parish have any comments on it?
maryfran crist
June 09th, 2010 6:49am
Call to Serve - but now what and when? More than a month has passed since I attended and I am another function in the Episcopal Church. I am struck buy the new awareness I have of Jubilee Ministries especially. For some of us, it is now easier to see how we may enhance each others ministry and better serve the people of God. We talked about how to make this happen. A possibility is to invite and welcome other organizations both in the church and without to attend our events. We here at Province V realize we must be more intentional to have others come to the table.
Matthew Ellis
May 27th, 2010 5:24pm
Finally, this is a link to over 50 other Alzheimer's support groups, if needed:

http://www.caregiver.com/regionalresources/states/TX/support/harris.htm
Matthew Ellis
May 27th, 2010 5:23pm
Here is a link to some additional groups:

http://www.alz.org/texas/documents/Support_Group_List_3_2010(1).pdf

Also:
Good Shepherd Episcopal Church
Alzheimer's Support Group
A monthly support group for family members and care givers of persons with Alzheimer's disease and other dementia- related disorders. The group is sponsored by the Alzheimer's Association.
The meetings are the second Monday of each month, from 7:00-8:30 p.m., in room 215.

For more information, contact Barbara Hemphill at (281) 361-7786 or by email at bookworm@kingwoodcable.com
Matthew Ellis
May 27th, 2010 5:19pm
http://www.stmartinsepiscopal.org/

St. Martin's Episcopal Church:
The Alzheimer's Caregivers' Support Group meets the 1st and 3rd Mondays, 3:00-4:30 PM, in Room 217, Payne Education Center. The next meetings are on Monday, June 7 and 21. This group offers socialization and encouragement to caregivers of anyone with dementia. These meetings are open, and discussions are always kept confidential within the group. Call Jackie Baldwin or Kathy Tellepsen.

Our 2010 schedule:
Monday, June 7 and 21
Monday, July 5 and 19
Monday, August 2 and 16
Tuesday, September 7 and Monday, September 20
Monday, October 4 and 18
Monday, November 1 and 15
Monday, December 6 and 20
Ginny Wagenseller, Parish Nurse, Connecticut
May 26th, 2010 12:40pm
Does anyone have any contacts for an Alzheimer Caregiver's Support Group in the Houston, Texas area?

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